A Reddit user shared her dilemma about cutting ties with her mother-in-law over unsettling behavior towards her unborn child. Seeking advice, she detailed a series of incidents that led to her decision.
The Original Poster (OP) and her husband were expecting their first baby. However, the mother-in-law’s possessiveness started causing discomfort. She referred to the unborn child as “her baby” with statements like, “I can’t wait for my baby to be born.” Despite OP’s unease, her husband advised ignoring these remarks.
Things escalated when the mother-in-law insisted on hosting a baby shower for OP. Justifying it as part of a pact with her friends, she excluded OP’s friends and declared it a private event. Though reluctant, OP agreed and created a garden-themed nursery registry to share with her mother-in-law.
On the day of the baby shower, OP was shocked to find a circus animal theme instead of her preferred garden theme. Worse, all the gifts were from a different registry the mother-in-law secretly created to furnish her own nursery. This left the couple stunned and infuriated.
When confronted, the mother-in-law admitted she disliked OP’s choices and wanted a circus animal-themed nursery for herself. This revelation led OP to declare that her mother-in-law would not be allowed to see her baby, sparking outrage among extended family members.
The Reddit community sided with OP, suggesting she take firm precautions, including installing security cameras and informing hospital staff to restrict the mother-in-law’s access. Many pointed out that the mother-in-law's behavior was invasive, treating OP more like a surrogate than a mother.
This story highlights the importance of boundaries and mutual respect in family dynamics, with Reddit users praising OP for standing her ground.